The life between us has changed
to the worst
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Question:
What does it mean that not all houses are built on love?
The answer:
As we said before, love and heartily affection arises between the spouses with legal correlation. Love comes after marriage as God says:
"And between you both He implanted affection and mercy," Surat Arroum verse 21.
When? After marriage. At first life is rosy, mental and physical desires are strong and there are few problems. Everyone is happy and tries to make the other happy. After a period of time they get used to each other and changes happen to the man and his wife might hate him, some changes also happen to the wife and her husband might hate her, what can we do then?
The wife shouldn't tell her husband that she hates him or tell anyone else. The same thing happened at the time of our sir Omar; a man felt that his wife hates him. He talked to her but she denied, he asked her to swear, she swore that she hates him, she didn't tell a lie. They went to our sir Omar and the man told him that his wife swore that she hates him. Our sir Omar hit her with his stick and wondered: Why did you swear?
Man shouldn't also tell his wife that he hates her or tell anyone else because not all houses are built on love. Love comes at the beginning of marriage to connect between spouses until cordiality and compassion are implanted and grow, then come children and there is a bigger common interest between them, this is what controls their marital life.
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