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Question:
Do my parents have the right to prevent my marriage by a young religious married man? I agree to marry him as a second wife but my family refuses that completely even if I'll be spinster?
The answer:
Islam makes the agreement of father and mother an important condition for marriage because they have more experience and know what is useful of their children. The messenger of Allah (PBUH) made the agreement of the guardian essential for marriage, he said: "There is no (legal) marriage without waley (a curator) and two competent and fair witnesses, otherwise, the marriage is invalid." Narrated after A'isha in Saheeh Ibn-Hebban.
The waley (curator or guardian) is the father when he is there, or he can be the brother or the uncle.
The messenger of Allah (PBUH) also said: "The satisfaction of God is in the satisfaction of father and wrath of God is in the wrath of father." After Abdullah Ibn-Amr in Sunan Attermethy.
Days and life have proved that any marriage done without the agreement of family finally fails. Family is the first guardian and protection for you when you need refuge.
Keep close to God's law and you will be happy.
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