A happy bride, but for how long?
عروس سعيدة ولكن إلى متى؟
Question:
I am a new bride. We are very happy and we love each other. People say that love doesn't continue. I am very worried, is that true? How can my happiness continue?
The answer:
Oh, daughter, you and your husband can keep happiness or lose it. To keep our happiness we must do our duties as we ask for our rights. I always ask you in our meetings to know your duties and do them and know your rights set by Islam (not imaginary ones) and seek them.
Oh, daughter you fear losing marital happiness. What do you and your husband do to keep it? What do you both prepare to face difficulties and problems of life after rosy times? Every Muslim male or female shouldn't do anything before asking, as God says:
"Ask those who know the Scripture if indeed, you don't know." Surat Al-Israa', verse 43.
For example, when a girl wants to marry, she asks her friends many times about every thing in marriage, gold, dress, wedding party and everything, why doesn't she ask about the rights of husband and wife towards each other? Isn't this from religion? Is there a girl thinks about these matters? There are some of course, but very few. If she asks, though we know that nothing is wrong when we ask or learn about religion, but she just asks about video tapes, then what about religion? Islam mentioned everything small or large. Islam explained all transactions between a wife and her husband and also between her and his family, but whoever asks?
During engagement time, we only talk about unimportant matters and 99.5% of our talk is about unreal things. We waste the beginning in illusion, imagination and dreams. When marriage happens, we must read a book about treatments and transactions of spouses towards each other. We must talk and know our duties towards each other. It should be the law we follow and never to forget, at different times we can remind each other. Do we know the rights and duties and how to keep to them? Maybe we don't know this but this is the foundation of happiness you feel in the beginning.
If you haven't done it yet, you can do it now. Both of you should know the rule of marital rights and duties and assimilate it together. Oh daughter, do it and care about each other, you will succeed in life, and the bird of happiness will flap its wings on your house God willing. And you don't care about people's words as long as you follow the words of the master of people (PBUH).
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