About choosing the husband
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Question:
What are the principles of choosing a husband?
The answer:
Nothing is better than the choice that God praises and says in verse 32, Surat Annoor:
"Marry those among you who are single, or the virtuous ones among yourselves, male or female: if they are in poverty, God will give them means out of His grace,"
The most important thing is that he is virtuous, the Messenger of God (PBUH) said:
"If someone who you agree to his religion and his manners proposes, accept him, if you don’t, it will be affliction of the world and a great corruption." Sonan Attermethy after Abi-Horayra.
One day a father asked our master Al-Hassan: "Two men proposed to engage my daughter, for whom I should marry her?
He (May Allah be pleased with him) said "Marry her to a virtuous man, if he loves her he would be generous with her and if he hates her he would not insult or be unjust with her."
He will not abuse, beat or insult her because he knows the rights of marriage in Islam. He won't ask her to visit her family and wastes her furniture as some people do now. One who fears God never to harm her or remiss her rights, why? Because he knows that God will question him about that.
O, girls, no one is better than a virtuous man, this is the truth, you want a crude man for whom you are the first girl, he must be bashful because "Modesty is from faith." You want a man who is a gentleman and fears God because as long as he fears God and does all His rights, he will also do all his wife's rights God willing.
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