Polygamy and spinsterhood
تعدد الزوجات والعنوسة
Question: What about a man who marries two wives?
The answer: Women refuse that, and Islam believes that the solution of this problem is in polygamy but women say no, they exceed: "His funeral better than his marriage."
It is a social problem. Firstly; girls now are more than men. Secondly, we exaggerate in gold. She stipulates that she doesn’t want to live with his father, his mother or his brothers, she needs her own flat. She also insists on doing an expensive wedding ceremony. She says to him: "I'm not lower than my cousin. She also exhausts her father by expenses and requirements, "I want so and so." Thirdly, when a young man graduates he needs three things: a house, a job and marriage. If his father helps him at the beginning, he always asks his help in household expenses, this increases the problems of the youths and their parents and marriage becomes a big risk because it leads the young man and his father to be in debt and the burdens increase.
In the past there were several outlets for the youth, they used to go to Libya, Iraq and other Arab countries and get the money. This isn't available now as these countries don't want the Egyptians because they can get cheaper workers from Sri Lanka, Indonesia and other countries. So where do young people get the money they need? These are the obstacles in our age and the youths crisis becomes harder and we increase it more; so how can a young man get married?
If we assimilate this hard case and a married man comes and wants to marry and asks it in Halal and Sharia we say no. The first wife never agrees and she wants all goodness for herself alone, but if she put herself in the same place of the other woman, she might have mercy upon her. The parents also rarely agree that their daughter marries a married man. Now, you judge.
O Brothers, Sharia has explained and legalized this issue for the good of the whole society now and in the future. The society should understand it as God has explained it and we all need to cooperate to solve the big problem of marriage and spinsterhood.
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