Question:
My daughter reads the Qur'an and performs prayers at night but she looks too lazy and she doesn’t love or enjoy life or food or drinks except the Qur'an and prayer, is this from jinn?
The answer:
Such a girl has a psychological problem. She might have impossible demands. Young people sometimes have day dreams, she might day dream to get to a certain college or get married to a man with certain features and live in a certain villa. Sometimes she gets deep imagination and doesn't feel people around her. If someone calls her, she doesn't respond, because She swims in those dreams and those daydreams are normal not a disease.
When she grows up and goes to university her dreams become greater. But when she graduates, gets to real life and finds that it is impossible to achieve her dreams because of the difficult economical circumstances, and then she has a neurological and psychological shock. She graduated but there is no work though she daydreamed to have a good job. Now she is looking for a husband but she doesn't find because the percentage of young men who are ready for marriage are smaller than girls, perhaps she had hoped to marry a young man but her dreams evaporated in real life, so young men escape and promises melt.
However, neurological shock and psychological break, may lead to one of these four:
Firstly: God may inspire her satisfaction. She reads the Qur'an and worships God lovingly, praise be to God that such a girl contents herself in a good way. But she doesn't stop eating or abandon people and normal life. She realizes the reality and seeks God's help and she is patient and anticipates rewards in the hereafter, such a girl is safe.
Secondly: She might lose power and surrender then she escapes from her reality that she refuses to herself where she expects to find protection from this cruel world which has no mercy. Maybe the Qur'an, prayers and acts of worship are just an external way of this escape.
Thirdly: Psychological shock may dominate and she stops eating and drinking and she gets isolated and introverted. I always say that a psychological illness is like all other diseases. We should resort to a Muslim psychiatrist in the second and third cases and she will recover God's willing, but we must follow the appropriate means and never to go to magic or jugglery for cure because it is endless harm.
Fourthly: This is the disaster and here I strongly warn because few girls may satisfy themselves in an evil way. Young men may seduce them because they become weak and they are ready to believe false promises, so they get into troubles the least of them is undocumented marriage. So you should do everything to protect your daughters so that they pass such crises peacefully.
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