Question:
My marriage was contracted and the wedding
ceremony will be after short time. My husband tells me I am his lawful wife. Is
that right? Is it a sin if I disobey him at that?
The answer:
If man has completed his contract of
marriage to a woman, she shouldn't think that everything becomes permissible.
Yes after contracting the marriage you become his wife but this is never
completed except after the wedding ceremony and after people see and know that.
God does not permit other things for Muslim males or females. A wise Muslim
girl doesn't allow such things and she only allows man to act as a husband
after the wedding ceremony, something bad may happens and he leaves her before
the wedding and she gets confused and puts herself and her family in a big
problem as she did a big sin. She can’t protect herself from society who knows
that she hasn’t completed her marriage yet. We shouldn't neglect such small
things as they lead to big sins. So it is not disobedience if you prevent him
before the wedding ceremony.
So, we always repeat advice to our sisters
and daughters to contract the marriage at the wedding night to avoid all these
problems and complications. We seek guidance of Allah to
the right way.
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