Relationship after contracting a marriage and
before consummation
Question:
My marriage was contracted and the wedding ceremony will be after short time. My husband tells me I am his lawful wife. Is that right? Is it a sin if I disobey him at that?
The answer:
If man has completed his contract of marriage to a woman, she should not think that everything becomes permissible. Yes after contracting the marriage you become his wife but this is never completed except after the wedding ceremony and after people see and know that. God does not permit other things for Muslim males or females. A wise Muslim girl does not allow such things and she only allows man to act as a husband after the wedding ceremony, something bad may happens and he leaves her before the wedding and she gets confused and puts herself and her family in a big problem as she did a big sin. She can not protect herself from society who knows that she has not completed her marriage yet. We should not neglect such small things as they lead to big sins. So it is not disobedience if you prevent him before the wedding ceremony.
So, we always repeat advice to our sisters and daughters to contract the marriage at the wedding night to avoid all these problems and complications. We seek guidance of Allah to the right way.
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