Question about non-documented marriage?
The answer: Non-documented marriage is that which not registered by the marriage official or registrar in the authorized Real Estate.
This marriage started when the husbands of some women died and they take pension, if they get married officially by a marriage official, the salary or the pension will stop so they circumvent to continue take the salary. This marriage is not legal because they take money that does not belong to them illegally.
This marriage is developed after that to university where there are girls with young men.
When the girl goes to this new life, the devil whispers to her and she says "I want to live my life," she talks, walks and loves different guys, but at this time they can not afford marriage and at the same time their families will not agree, what will they do?
They agree to do non-documented marriage and they only write a paper between each other away from her and his family. This is the big problem among students in universities because after graduation he denies her and says he never knows her and consequently her life is destroyed. Sometimes she gets pregnant and gives birth but he says the baby is not his son and he does not know him. So she destroys her life herself. Sometimes her family knows and disavows her too and she turns to vice as you hear and read.
The most important thing in this subject is the girl; so God started by her first because no one can touch her without her will as Allah says:
"The woman and the man stained by adultery," Surat Annoor verse 2.
So, non-documented marriage is forbidden in all Islamic schools. If a young man wants her he should go to her family and proposes.
We should not exaggerate marriage expenses as the apostle (PBUH) said:
"The best women of my nation are those whose faces are shinning and those who have lower dowry." (After A'isha Jame'a Al-Ahadeeth Wal-Maraseel.)
So we should facilitate for the youth because work opportunities now are unavailable.
I like what happened in Edfoo, people chose one from every family and they gathered and agreed to a document that the gift for a girl before marriage should not be more than 5 hundred pounds and they banned expensive ceremonies, they just allowed necessary things the new house needs and other things such as television etc will come after that, so we should facilitate, and I see lots of marriages were done here, and by this our boys and girls are modest and achieve their goals.
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