Question:
I'll give birth soon God's willing, what should I do to prepare for the new born? And what you advise me about that?
The answer:
If a marital life continues, naturally Allah will grant us children. I told all of you before to prepare for marriage by studying rights and duties so when the time to have children comes, the couple must read a book about the ethics and the rights of children in religion.
The wife should learn how to receive her child to bring him up according to the right way of Islam, and the father should educate children and bring them up the right way. They should both know that the newcomer will take a lot of time and expenses so they must prepare together to those requirements. They should cooperate, advise each other and not ignore each other because of the responsibilities and demands of the newcomer. Children are supposed to make relationship stronger and increase intimacy and love.
I also warn you to an important matter, a wise wife realizes that her husband always needs her. Some fathers get envious because of mother's great care of the child, so do not forget that there is a "big child" needs you. You should not neglect yourself to take care of the newborn or you will lose the father.
A wise husband also shouldn't get too busy seeking work and leave home because of the increasing demands and responsibilities of life, he neglects his wife and children forgetting that his wife needs psychological and emotional care from him and that educating and upbringing children is a common duty.
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