4– The prescription of guidance in bringing up
children
Do you know O believers that Allah has made a
full course for the believers for bringing up their children? Either they are
in the nursery, primary, preparatory, secondary or university stage? If they
are young, there is a complete course in Sorat Lukman, Allah says:
"O my son! Join not
in worship others with Allah. Verily! Joining others in worship with Allah is a
great Zulm (wrong) indeed." (Surat Lukman, verse 13)
It begins by training the child to the oneness
of Allah and then orders him:
"O my son!
Aqim-As-Salat (perform prayers), enjoin (people) for
Al-Ma'ruf (all that is good), and forbid (people) from Al-Munkar (i.e.
all that is evil and bad), and bear with patience whatever befall you.
Verily! These are some of the important commandments ordered by Allah with no
exemption." (Surat Lukman, verse 17)
His duty towards his God is to perform prayers,
to order Al-Ma'ruf and forbid Al-Munkar, his duty from his heart towards
whatever befalls on him is to: "And bear with patience
whatever befalls you." So that he won't be scared terrified or
seduced of what befalls on him from the heavens and that which can be removed
by supplication to Allah Who sent it, then it orders him towards people to:
"And turn not your
face away from men with pride, nor walk in insolence through the earth. Verily,
Allah likes not each arrogant boaster. And be moderate (or show no
insolence) in your walking, and lower your voice. Verily, the harshest of
all voices is the voice (braying) of the ass." (Surat Lukman, verses 18,
19)
By Allah, if you see a child
upon these divine principles and Koranic instructions, by Allah he will be like
the noble angels and he will be as the prophet (May the blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said narrating after his God:
"O repentant young man,
to Me you are as some of My angels."[1]
So he is like the angels of
Allah. When he reaches the age of youth, Allah made a course for him in Surat
"Truly! They were young men who believed in their Lord (Allah), and We increased them in guidance." (Surat Al-Kahf, verse 13)
He (Allah) detailed the noble
course which:
- Protects the youths from
temptation and preserves them from evils.
- Made them always cling to
the right.
- Made them carry on the Sunna
of the prophet and the religion of Allah.
- Made them apply the way of
the Koran.
- Made them to be dutiful to
their parents and always obedient to them.
[1] The prophet (May the blessings and peace of Allah be
upon him)
said: "Allah likes nothing better than a repentant youth." AlDaylamy
by Anas, Kanz AlOm"mal.
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