The answer:
Allah always speaks about the essence. Sometimes appearance may be different from essence, so God always makes a good essence meet a good essence. A girl sometimes imitates her colleagues in appearance that indicates she is not good, but after marriage the appearance go away and her reality appears and indicates that she is as good as him. Sometimes he looks the same but after marriage his good essence appears, as God says:
"Good men are for good women" (Surat -Aunoor verse 26)
The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) says about the essence: "People are metals like silver and gold." Saheeh Muslim after Abi-Horayra.
I have an important piece of advice, I have been asked many times about the delay of veiled girls’ marriage. Some of you wanted to take off the veil to get married, and some mothers tell their daughters to be easy and let young men see their beauty and their hair and after that they can wear hijab.
Here, your essence appears, if it is good, you shouldn't agree to appear disrespectful, because by that you seek a disrespectful man. So don't say how I marry a disrespectful man. You say you only take off your hijab in order to get married but may be after marriage he doesn’t allow you to wear hijab or he will be indulgent and impolite man. A girl who has the good original essence doesn't give up the law of God to get married. A man who has a good essence will come seeking a girl who has a good essence and he will appreciate, love and protect you but as much as you are patient you will be given rewards.
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